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the friction that smooths the world while wearing itself down to nothing

means Describing something rough enough to scrape or wear down a surface — or, of a person, harsh and grating in manner.

from From Latin abradere, 'to scrape off,' built from ab- ('away') and radere ('to scrape, shave') — the same radere that gives us 'razor' and 'erase.' What began as literal scraping was later, in the 19th century, turned on people whose manners scratch as much as sandpaper.

sandpaper origin
Once made with crushed glass and shark skin
Mohs scale
Diamond grinds everything; nothing grinds diamond
jewelers' trick
Toothpaste is a mild abrasive polishing your enamel away
social meaning
Personalities, like sandpaper, smooth others through rough contact
self-sacrifice
Grit dulls itself with every surface it perfects
for instance

corundum — mineral used in sandpaper and grinding wheels, ranks 9 on mohs hardness scale

silicon carbide — synthetic abrasive created in 1891, harder than corundum and used in cutting tools

diamond grit — industrial diamonds used in saw blades and polishing compounds, hardest natural abrasive

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