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the quiet currency you spend without counting and somehow always have more.
means a gentle, tender feeling of fondness, care, or love toward someone or something.
from From Latin 'afficere,' to act upon or influence — built from 'ad-' (toward) and 'facere' (to do or make). The noun 'affectio' meant a state of mind brought about by some influence, literally how you've been 'done to.' It traveled through Old French 'affection' into English, where it narrowed from any disposition of feeling to the warm, kindly kind — the tender mark something leaves on the heart.
- brain chemistry
- Oxytocin spikes during hugs lasting twenty seconds or more.
- survival need
- Touch-deprived orphans had higher death rates than fed ones.
- language gap
- Some cultures have no word separating affection from love.
- contagious
- Watching others share warmth triggers your own oxytocin release.
bonding in primates — jane goodall documented chimpanzees embracing and grooming offspring for 40+ years in gombe stream
oxytocin release in humans — mother-infant bonding triggers oxytocin surge within minutes of birth, measurable in blood samples
dog-human attachment — service dogs like those trained by canine companions show measurable cortisol reduction in handlers during stress