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a fortress built from inside jokes, with no door and a very long memory.

means A small, tight-knit group of people who keep to themselves and tend to exclude outsiders.

from Straight from French, where 'clique' meant a clatter or a noisy crowd — born from the old verb 'cliquer,' to click or make a sharp sound (a cousin of 'click' itself). It started as an echo of bodies clustered and chattering, then narrowed over time into the cooler, frostier sense of a closed circle. English borrowed it in the 18th century, keeping the snap of that 'click' in both the sound and the snub.

french root
From a word meaning a clicking sound or claque
clap squad
Originally hired crowds paid to applaud plays
brain wiring
Humans cap stable social bonds around 150 people
size sweet spot
Tightest cliques hover between three and five members
exclusion sting
Social rejection lights up the brain's pain centers
for instance

the fab four — beatles inner circle of 4 members who dominated 1960s music and culture

the rat pack — frank sinatra, dean martin, sammy davis jr. and others who ruled las vegas in the 1950s-60s

the bloomsbury group — virginia woolf, john maynard keynes and intellectuals who shaped early 20th century london

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