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Kindness performed from a great height, so you don't miss the elevation.
means Treating someone as inferior while wrapping it in the gift wrap of fake politeness or simplified explanation.
from From Latin condescendere, to descend together — once a genuine virtue meaning a noble stooping to others' level, before the gesture curdled into the smirk it is today.
Holy reversalOriginally praised humility in saints and royalty.
Tell-tale phraseOften starts with as you may know.
Posture wordBuilt from the act of looking down.