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originally a benign Greek lord, now history's favorite word for a guy who can't share

means A ruler who wields absolute power, usually cruelly or oppressively, answering to no one.

from From Greek 'despotēs,' meaning 'master of a household' or 'lord' — at first a perfectly respectable title for someone in charge of a home or estate (the female counterpart, 'despoina,' meant 'mistress'). It passed through Latin and into French 'despote' before reaching English. The word's reputation curdled over time: as it came to describe rulers with unchecked authority — including later Byzantine and Ottoman-era titles — its flavor soured from 'lord of the house' to 'tyrant who owns the whole place,' which is roughly where it sits today.

greek root
despotes once meant master of a household
byzantine title
emperors handed despot out as honorable rank
enlightened version
despots like Frederick reformed while keeping all power
plural fun
despots rarely retire, usually get retired
for instance

nero — roman emperor who ruled 54-68 ad with absolute tyranny, reportedly fiddling while rome burned

stalin — soviet leader responsible for ~20 million deaths through purges and forced collectivization, 1924-1953

kim jong-un — current north korean dictator since 2011 with absolute control over 26 million people

bashar al-assad — syrian president since 2000 who has killed 500,000+ civilians in ongoing civil war

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