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A two-second ritual that decides whether a stranger becomes a friend or a story.

means A word, gesture, or message used to acknowledge someone when you meet or address them.

from From the Old English verb 'grētan,' meaning to approach, accost, or salute — to come up to someone with intent. The same root surfaces in German 'grüßen,' a likely Germanic cousin. Originally the act could be hostile or friendly alike: to 'greet' an enemy was simply to confront them. Over centuries the meaning softened from any approach into the specifically warm hello we know now, with the '-ing' marking it as the thing itself rather than the doing.

handshake origin
Possibly proved empty hands held no weapon
global variety
Some cultures press noses, others spit politely
hello's age
Popularized by the telephone, not conversation
primate roots
Chimps greet with hugs and palm-grasps
brain speed
First impressions form in under a second
for instance

hawaiian lei greeting — traditional welcome in hawaii where garlands of flowers are placed around visitors' necks

maori hongi — new zealand indigenous greeting where two people press foreheads and noses together

thai wai — respectful greeting in thailand where hands are pressed together at chest level with a slight bow

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