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proving loyalty by surviving what loyalty should never require.
means a ritual of humiliation or abuse used to induct new members into a group under the guise of building unity.
from from 17th-century nautical slang haze, meaning to punish sailors with tedious or dangerous work; adopted by american colleges by the 1800s to describe brutal freshman initiations.
first recorded deathcornell student died in 1873 hazing incident
legal statusillegal in most u.s. states now
paradoxsuffering together fakes intimacy, doesn't build it