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The art of saying yes to yourself before your better judgment can object.
means Generously permissive of pleasure or excess, whether toward others or your own cravings.
from From Latin indulgere, to be kind or yield to, blending in- with a root for soft leniency — letting someone, often yourself, off the hook.
Religious rootsIndulgences once let sinners buy forgiveness.
Two facesMeans both pampering others and spoiling yourself.
Dessert dutyMenus deploy it to justify the price.