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proof you cared enough to take on more than one human should.

means Feeling buried under more demands, emotions, or work than you can manage at once.

from From Middle English 'whelmen,' to capsize or cover over — picture a boat 'whelmed' by a wave, turned upside down and swallowed. Add the intensifying 'over-' and you get the sense of being completely engulfed. The word started literally watery, describing things drowned or buried, before it sank into the realm of feelings, where most of us now meet it.

word origin
from whelm, meaning to capsize a boat entirely
underwhelm came later
coined in 1950s as a deliberate joke
brain effect
stress narrows focus, ignoring possible solutions
no middle ground
english rarely lets you be simply whelmed
for instance

twitter moderation team 2022 — elon musk fired 80% of twitter's 5,500 staff, leaving remaining team overwhelmed with content moderation across 500 million daily users

fema after hurricane katrina — august 2005: federal agency received 1.5 million requests for assistance with only a fraction of staff to process claims

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