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the only person at the game everyone agrees to hate equally
means A referee is the official who enforces the rules of a game or match, makes binding calls on disputes, and keeps play fair.
from From Latin 'referre,' meaning 'to carry back' or 'to refer' — the same root behind 'refer' and 'reference.' Originally a referee was simply someone a matter was 'referred to' for judgment, a neutral party handed a dispute to settle. The sporting sense, where the referee is the person all sides agree to abide by, grew out of that older idea of the referred-to arbiter and took firm hold in 19th-century games.
originnamed for parties who refer disputes to a third
cardiooften outruns the players, logging miles each match
sealed lipstop whistlers train to spot fouls in milliseconds
the whistleacme thunderer, 1884, made the modern game possible
pressureabuse and threats drive thousands to quit yearly