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The invisible software your parents installed before you knew you were a computer.

means The way a person is raised and cared for through childhood, including the values, manners, and habits instilled by parents or guardians.

from A plain English compound bolting "up" onto "bring" — the same "bring up" you still use when you say someone "was brought up well." English has a fondness for these up- creations (upkeep, upstart, upshot), and "upbringing" arrived as the noun for the long process of bringing a child up into adulthood. The "bring" itself is deeply old, traceable to Old English bringan, with cousins across the Germanic languages.

accent
Your childhood region's voice survives in your jaw forever
money habits
Spending patterns largely set before age seven
epigenetics
Early stress can switch genes on for life
taste
Food preferences forged by what mom ate pregnant
resilience
Predictable chaos beats unpredictable calm for kids
for instance

oprah winfrey — born to unmarried teenage mother in rural mississippi, 1954, became world's most influential media mogul

elon musk — raised by engineer father in south africa during apartheid, moved alone to canada at 17

malala yousafzai — educated by father in swat valley pakistan despite taliban ban on girls' education, shot at 15 in 2012

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