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Chosen, not born into a family — destiny rerouted by paperwork and love.

means A person who has been taken into a family as their own through legal adoption, becoming a lawful and lasting member of it.

from From the verb "adopt," which traces back through French to the Latin "adoptare" — "ad-" (to, toward) plus "optare" (to choose, to wish for), the same "optare" behind "option" and "opt." So at its Latin heart, an adoptee is literally one who has been "chosen toward." The "-ee" suffix, borrowed from French past participles, marks the receiver of an action — as in "employee" or "trustee" — so the word's very shape says: the one to whom choosing is done.

famous ranks
Steve Jobs, Nelson Mandela, and Marilyn Monroe were adoptees
DNA era
Cheap genetic tests now crack sealed-record mysteries open
birthday duality
Many celebrate both birth and adoption anniversaries
primal wound
Early separation leaves quiet lifelong psychological marks
legal rebirth
Adoption issues an entirely new birth certificate
for instance

steve jobs — co-founder of apple, adopted by paul and clara jobs in 1955

oprah winfrey — media mogul adopted by grandmother hattie mae lee in mississippi

jamie foxx — actor and musician adopted by grandmother annellanease love in texas

tom brady — nfl quarterback adopted by thomas sr. and galley brady in california

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