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the art of telling someone to go to hell so nicely they look forward to the trip

means Polite, courteous behavior that keeps social interactions smooth and respectful, especially in disagreement.

from From Latin 'civilis,' meaning 'relating to citizens or public life,' itself from 'civis,' a citizen. It traveled through French 'civilité' into English, where it first carried the broad sense of good citizenship and proper public conduct before narrowing to the everyday politeness we mean today. Note the family resemblance: 'civil,' 'civic,' 'city,' and 'citizen' are all cousins from that same Roman root — a reminder that being civil once meant, quite literally, behaving like one who belongs in the city.

latin root
From civis, citizen — being fit for the city
founding rules
Teen George Washington copied 110 civility rules by hand
erasmus bestseller
His 1530 manners book sold across Europe for centuries
weapon disguised
Often the velvet glove over cold contempt
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