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the cheapest weapon that costs the wielder more than the target every single time

means behavior that is impolite, disrespectful, or offensive to others, ignoring the social courtesies expected in a given situation

from From 'rude,' which entered English in the 1300s through Old French 'rude,' from Latin 'rudis' — meaning rough, raw, unworked, unpolished, the way a block of stone is before anyone takes a chisel to it. The same root sits behind 'rudimentary.' So at its core, rudeness is simply the unrefined state: the human equivalent of a thing left coarse and unfinished. The suffix '-ness' came along later to name the quality itself.

contagion
witnessing rudeness spreads it like a cold to bystanders
brain drain
incivility tanks cognitive performance and working memory measurably
origin
comes from Latin rudis, meaning rough or unworked
survival cost
rude medical teams make significantly more diagnostic errors
power tell
often signals insecurity, not strength, in the doer
for instance

kanye west vmas interruption — interrupted taylor swift's acceptance speech at 2009 mtv video music awards, calling her undeserving

serena williams umpire clash — called umpire carlos ramos a 'thief' at 2018 us open final, received code violations

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