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The bridge between what you swore drunk and what you do hungover.

means A binding pledge or promise to a person, cause, or course of action, along with the dedication required to follow through on it.

from From Latin 'committere,' to bring together or entrust — built from 'com-' (together) and 'mittere' (to send, to put). The same 'mittere' fathered a whole dynasty of English words: 'mission,' 'transmit,' 'permit.' Originally 'commit' meant simply to hand something over for safekeeping, and 'commitment' could mean being committed to prison — sent away into custody. The sense of a self-imposed bond, a promise you entrust to your own future self, grew naturally from there: in both cases, something is sent forward and cannot easily be called back.

word root
From Latin committere, to bring together or entrust
sunk cost
Brains escalate commitment to justify past losses
marriage odds
Roughly half of vows quietly become negotiations
climbers
Free soloists commit where retreat is no longer possible
contracts
Handshakes once held more weight than signed paper
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marriage vows — approximately 2.2 million marriages annually in the us alone, formalized through spoken or written pledges

military enlistment — 8-year service obligation for us armed forces, legally binding contract with penalties for breach

mortgage — 30-year debt obligation averaging $400,000+ in the us, secured against property with foreclosure consequences

olympic athlete training — typically 10,000+ hours of training before competing, demonstrated by gymnasts like simone biles starting at age 6

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