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the vault you walk into voluntarily, knowing it stores your secrets and your shame

means A person you trust with your private thoughts, secrets, and feelings.

from From French 'confident,' itself from Italian 'confidente,' rooted in Latin 'confidere' — 'to trust fully' (con-, 'with/thoroughly,' plus fidere, 'to trust,' a relative of 'fides,' faith). The odd English spelling with a final '-ant' likely arose to mirror the French nasal pronunciation; the form 'confidante,' borrowed later, marks the female version in the French manner.

word origin
From Latin confidere, to trust completely
theater roots
Stock character who hears the hero's secret plans
gender split
Confidante spells the female version in French
royal job
Monarchs kept paid confidants to test loyalty
science says
Having one cuts mortality risk measurably
for instance

cardinal richelieu — chief advisor and confidant to louis xiii of france, wielded unprecedented political power 1624-1642

thomas cromwell — henry viii's chief minister and closest confidant, architect of english reformation 1532-1540

nancy reagan — ronald reagan's wife and most trusted confidant, influenced major white house decisions 1981-1989

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