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the rare person who knows the worst about you and stays anyway

means a person you know well, like, and trust, outside of family or romance.

from From Old English 'frēond,' which was literally a present participle — 'one who loves' — built on the verb 'frēon,' to love or favor. It traces back to a Germanic root for loving and freeing (the words 'free' and 'friend' are deep cousins; in the old worldview, the free people of your household were the ones you loved). So baked into the very bones of the word is the idea that a friend is, at heart, someone doing the active, ongoing work of loving you.

brain limit
Humans can maintain roughly 150 stable relationships
shared pain
Friends' brains show synced activity watching the same things
longevity boost
Strong friendships rival quitting smoking for lifespan
old word
From Old English freond, meaning to love
five rule
You become the average of your closest companions
for instance

david and jonathan — biblical friendship where jonathan gave david his armor and robe, 1 samuel 18

lewis and tolkien — oxford literary friends who met in 1926 and influenced each other's major works

oprah and gayle — oprah winfrey and gayle king's 47-year friendship, most publicly documented modern friendship

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