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The art of blending in so well you forget you had edges.
means To adjust your behavior, beliefs, or shape to match a standard, group, or expectation.
from From Latin conformare, to shape together — con (with) plus formare (to form), literally molding yourself to fit a pre-cut shape.
Asch effectPeople deny obvious facts to match a crowd.
Building codeStructures must conform or they get condemned.
Quiet costBelonging and selfhood often charge the same fee.