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a full-body negotiation where the loser of the arm-placement war wins everything.

means To hold someone close in a warm, affectionate embrace, usually while lying or sitting together.

from A word of murky northern roots, first surfacing in English around the 1500s. Its likeliest relatives are dialect words like 'cull' and 'coll,' meaning to embrace, and it may be a cousin of 'coddle,' to treat tenderly. The truth is nobody can pin its exact parentage — it seems to have crept into the language the way a cuddle creeps across a bed: softly, gradually, and without anyone agreeing on who started it.

chemical payoff
Triggers oxytocin, the brain's anti-stress hormone.
pain relief
Affectionate touch can dull physical pain measurably.
professional version
Paid cuddle therapists exist and book out fast.
survival roots
Premature babies gain weight faster from skin contact.
sleep sabotage
Couples sleep worse together but choose it anyway.
for instance

world cuddle championship — annual event in austria where couples compete to hold each other the longest, held since 2009

cuddle puddle — common practice at burning man festival where groups of people lie together in intimate platonic contact

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