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the art of getting away with it while looking like you meant to.
means To handle a tricky situation with skill, subtlety, and graceful precision — or the elegant skill itself.
from From French finesse, "delicacy, fineness, refinement," built on fin, "fine, delicate, subtle" — itself a cousin of the same root that gives us English fine. It arrived in English in the late Middle Ages carrying notions of purity and refinement, and over time leaned toward the cleverer, more cunning side of "fine": doing something deftly rather than just doing it well.
- origin
- from French for delicacy and refinement
- in cards
- a strategic play to capture an unbeatable opponent
- the trick
- making difficulty look effortless on purpose
- opposite
- brute force apologizing for itself
muhammad ali's rope-a-dope — ali absorbed punches against ropes vs george foreman in 1974 kinshasa, winning by strategy not force
roger federer's slice backhand — federer used delicate angled slices to control points and tire opponents throughout his 20 grand slam career
brazil's tiki-taka football — brazil won 1970 world cup in mexico with intricate passing and ball control rather than direct play