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the social lubricant that opens doors logic spent years politely knocking on
means The quality of being warm, kind, and approachable toward others, making people feel welcome in your presence.
from Rooted in Old English 'freond,' meaning friend — itself born from the verb 'freon,' to love or to favor — a cousin of the same Germanic family that gave us 'free.' The thread runs deep: to be free and to love were once tangled together, the idea being that your friends were the ones you held dear by choice rather than by blood. Tack on '-li' (the ancestor of '-ly,' meaning 'having the manner of') and the abstract '-ness,' and you build up the layered noun for that loving, favoring manner toward others.
- halo effect
- warm people are presumed more competent than they are
- contagious
- smiles trigger mirror neurons in nearby strangers
- dog advantage
- tameness in foxes bred friendly faces in generations
- survival edge
- early humans cooperated their way past stronger rivals
- cheaper trust
- a warm hello lowers others' perceived risk instantly
golden retriever — breed consistently ranked #1 in friendliness and temperament by kennel clubs worldwide
costa rica — ranked #1 in world happiness report 2023 with pura vida culture of friendliness
new zealand — earned 'friendly giant' reputation with highest hospitality rankings in 2024 tourism surveys