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means the quality of being truthful, sincere, and free from deceit in word and action.

from From Latin honestas, 'honor, respectability,' built on honos (later honor), 'esteem, dignity.' It arrived in English through Old French honeste in the Middle Ages, and at first leaned toward 'honorable, decent, respectable' more than 'truthful' — a sense still fossilized in the plant called honesty, named for its transparent, coin-like seed pods. The narrowing toward 'not lying' came later, as if the word slowly decided that the most respectable thing a person could do was simply tell the truth.

brain cost
Lying burns more cognitive energy than telling truth
plant namesake
A flower called honesty grows translucent silver seed pods
polygraph myth
Lie detectors measure stress, not truth, and fail often
radical version
A 1990s movement urged confessing every thought aloud
toddler timeline
Most children learn to lie by age three
for instance

george washington cherry tree — apocryphal story about young washington confessing to cutting down his father's tree, became america's honesty parable

diogenes the cynic — 4th century bce greek philosopher who valued radical honesty and lived ascetically in athens to demonstrate virtue

whistleblowers edward snowden — nsa contractor who revealed classified surveillance programs in 2013, prioritized honesty over government secrecy

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