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the rarest person in any room, disguised as the quiet one

means A person who pays attention to what someone else is saying or to a sound, taking it in rather than just hearing it.

from Built from 'listen,' which goes back to Old English 'hlysnan,' meaning to pay attention or give ear — a cousin of 'hlystan' and tied to an old Germanic root for hearing. Add the '-er' that turns a verb into the one who does it, and you get the one who listens. That same ancient root, by the way, is thought to lie behind the now-archaic 'list' meaning 'to be pleased' or 'to listen,' a faint echo of when hearing and heeding were the same act.

brain speed
hears 3x faster than anyone speaks
sales secret
top closers talk less, listen more
therapy core
often just being heard is the cure
radio era
once meant a fan tuned to broadcasts
power move
silence pulls out what questions cannot
for instance

howard stern — radio personality with millions of devoted followers since 1980s, known for intensely engaged audience

npr audience — over 26 million weekly listeners in the us as of 2023

joe rogan experience audience — podcast with over 11 million spotify followers, among the most listened-to shows

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