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The state of not being tied down, by ropes, rules, or self-control.
means The quality of being slack, free, imprecise, or insufficiently held together.
from From Old Norse 'lauss' meaning free or unbound, sibling to 'loss' — both about things slipping their grip.
Bodily senseMedical shorthand for the digestive variety since the 1500s.
Double lifeMeans both physical slackness and moral laxity.
Opposite pullTightness implies control; looseness implies surrender.