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the gap left in the shape of what you held

means The fact or feeling of no longer having something or someone you once had, whether through death, defeat, or simple misplacement.

from From Old English 'los,' meaning destruction or ruin, tied to the verb 'lose' and its Old English ancestor 'losian' (to perish, to be destroyed). The whole family traces back to a Proto-Germanic root suggesting loosening or letting go — possibly a cousin of the same root behind 'loose' and 'dissolve.' So at its core, loss is a thing coming undone: a grip that slackens until what you held slips through.

loss aversion
losing hurts twice as much as winning feels good
phantom limb
brains keep mapping what's no longer there
five stages
grief model was built for the dying, not mourners
in business
a 'write-off' is just loss with paperwork
for instance

loss of challenger shuttle — space shuttle challenger disintegrated 73 seconds after launch on january 28, 1986, killing all 7 crew members

loss of titanic — rms titanic sank on april 15, 1912, in the north atlantic after hitting an iceberg, killing ~1,500 people

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