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the perverse relief of watching someone you love make a choice you can finally, guiltlessly resent.
means the tibetan buddhist concept describing subtle satisfaction or self-righteous glee at another person's failure or misfortune, especially when you warned them.
from from tibetan, used in buddhist psychology to name a specific flavor of schadenfreude distinct from simple malice — it is the smugness of being proven right about someone's downfall, often surfacing among the pious as a subtle spiritual failing.
buddhist mind-poisonclassified as a subtle form of ill will.
not gloatingquieter than schadenfreude, closer to told-you-so.
tricky to spotoften disguised as concern or moral clarity.