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the line drawn around a stranger that always says more about the one holding the pen

means the quality of being perceived as fundamentally different from oneself or one's group, often in a way that sets someone apart as alien or outsider.

from A straightforward English build: "other" plus the noun-making suffix "-ness," which has been turning adjectives into abstract nouns since Old English (compare "goodness," "darkness"). "Other" itself is ancient, from Old English "oþer," with cousins across the Germanic languages and roots reaching back to Proto-Indo-European. The plain word is old, but "otherness" as a weighty termthe condition of being the Otherwas sharpened by 20th-century philosophy and social theory, where thinkers used it to name how groups define themselves by deciding who doesn't belong.

coined termphilosophers call it alterity, the radical difference of others
mirror effectdefining the foreign first defines the familiar
de Beauvoirargued woman was made the Other to man
colonial toolempires invented exotic outsiders to justify ruling them
infant skillbabies grasp self versus other before they speak
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