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the art of caring enormously about something gloriously small.
means The quality of being overly concerned with trivial matters, or of behaving in a small-minded, mean-spirited way over things that scarcely matter.
from From "petty," which came into English from the Old French "petit," meaning "small" — the same little word that still means "small" in French today. Originally "petty" simply meant minor or of small importance (as it still does in "petty cash" or "petty officer"), with no sting to it. Over time the sense soured: what is small in size slid into what is small in spirit, and the "-ness" suffix bottled that smallness of soul into a noun.
- brain reward
- Revenge activates the same pleasure centers as chocolate
- legal origin
- From French petit, simply meaning small
- office economy
- Sticky-note wars cost zero, satisfy infinitely
- long memory
- Grudges outlive the offenses that spawned them
- fine print
- Spite fences are literally illegal in some states
office supply wars — workplace feuds over stolen yogurt, labeled food, and thermostat settings documented in hr complaints globally
hoa violations — homeowners associations fining residents $100-$500 for grass length 1 inch too tall or unapproved mailbox colors
parking spot disputes — suburban neighbors in places like california leaving aggressive notes or blocking driveways over unmarked spots