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The art of mistaking dopamine for destiny, and somehow being right anyway.
means A feeling or expression of love and emotional intimacy between people, or a story, mood, or sense of adventure and idealized beauty.
from From Old French 'romanz,' meaning a story written in the vernacular — the common Roman-derived tongue — rather than in scholarly Latin. The word traces to Vulgar Latin 'romanice,' 'in the Roman manner.' Since those popular tales overflowed with knights, quests, and love, 'romance' drifted from meaning 'a language' to 'a kind of story' to, eventually, the love itself. So the languages we call Romance and the feeling we call romantic share the same Roman root — a happy accident of linguistic geography.
word originNamed for tales written in vernacular Roman tongues, not Latin
brain chemistryEarly love lowers serotonin like obsessive-compulsive disorder does
medieval inventionCourtly love was popularized by 12th-century troubadours
limerence limitPassionate infatuation typically fades within 18 to 36 months
flower codeVictorians sent coded messages through specific bouquet arrangements