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wanting something so badly it becomes a place you live in.

means A deep, persistent yearning for something or someone, often tinged with the ache of distance or absence.

from From Old English 'langian,' meaning to grow long, to yearn after — built on the same root as 'long' itself. The thread is lovely and intuitive: desire stretches time out, makes the wait feel long, the way an afternoon spent missing someone seems to last forever. The German 'verlangen' (to crave) shares this old Germanic family, where to want and to lengthen were tangled up together.

german word
Sehnsucht means an ache for the unnameable
portuguese soul
Saudade longs for what may never return
brain chemistry
Craving activates the same circuits as physical hunger
welsh hiraeth
Homesickness for a home that never existed
distance fuels it
Absence sharpens desire more than presence ever could
for instance

penelope waiting for odysseus — greek mythology: waited 20 years for her husband to return from troy

the terminal movie — tom hanks' character viktor navorski waits 9 months in jfk airport to enter america

waiting for godot — beckett play: two men wait endlessly for someone who never arrives

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