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the most disappointing destination, because the chase was always the good part

means The achievement of a goal, aim, or desired outcome — getting the thing you set out to get.

from From Latin successus, the noun form of succedere, 'to come up, follow after, go well.' Break it down: sub- ('under, up from below') plus cedere ('to go, move'). So at its root, success literally means 'a coming-up' or 'a following-after' — the next thing that happens. Tellingly, early English use could mean any result, good OR bad (you could have 'good success' or 'ill success'); only later did the word quietly assume that the outcome must be a happy one. The same cedere gives us 'proceed,' 'succeed,' and 'cede.'

survivorship bias
we study winners, ignore identical losers who failed
hedonic treadmill
achievements reset to baseline happiness within months
definition drift
each summit reveals a taller mountain
luck factor
timing and birthplace outweigh most personal grit
impostor syndrome
peaks high achievers, not the underqualified
for instance

elon musk — built tesla into $1 trillion market cap company and founded spacex, now world's richest person

oprah winfrey — rose from poverty to build $2.5 billion net worth empire through media and philanthropy

steve jobs — transformed apple from near-bankruptcy in 1997 to $2 trillion market cap before his death in 2011

serena williams — won 23 grand slam tennis titles, the most in open era history

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