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the slow-motion goodbye plants and glares both know how to deliver

means Drying up and shrinking from lack of vitality, or — of a look or remark — so cutting it seems to make the target shrivel.

from From Middle English 'wydderen,' a variant of 'wederen,' meaning to expose to the weather — the same root as 'weather' itself. A withered plant is, quite literally, one the elements have worn down. The figurative use — a withering glance, a withering remark — leans on that image of something left to dry out and curl, now applied to pride instead of petals.

plant move
wilting is a controlled water shutdown, not death
the look
a stare so dry it skips words entirely
word root
shares ancestry with weather, the original eroder
strategic
some plants wilt on purpose to conserve moisture
figurative power
criticism described as withering implies total dehydration of confidence
for instance

the withering heights — emily brontë's 1847 novel where characters and landscapes literally decay and deteriorate

withering by fire — california's dixie fire in 2021 burned 963,309 acres, leaving vast withered forests

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