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a gravitational pull toward someone who has no idea they're a planet.

means To compress something forcibly until it deforms or breaks — or, as a noun, an intense and usually short-lived infatuation with someone.

from From Old French 'croissir,' to crash, gnash, or break, itself likely of Germanic origin and echoing the very sound of something being smashed. The word stayed brutally literal — crushing rocks, grapes, hopes — for centuries. The romantic 'crush,' meaning an overwhelming infatuation, is a much later American coinage that surfaced in the late 1800s, the idea being that the feeling presses down on you with a weight you can't quite resist.

word origin
From Old French croissir, meaning to crack or gnash.
brain chemistry
Dopamine spikes mimic the high of cocaine.
limerence
Psychologists named obsessive crushing in the 1970s.
duration
Most crushes burn out within four months.
physical tell
Pupils dilate when staring at the object of desire.
for instance

crush depth submarine — maximum depth a submarine can withstand before structural failure, typically 400-600m for military subs

orange crush drink — carbonated beverage first sold by crush international in 1911

crush syndrome — medical condition from prolonged pressure on muscle tissue, documented in earthquake and industrial accident survivors

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