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the art of receiving a kidney and complaining it didn't come gift-wrapped.

means the failure to feel or show thankfulness for a kindness, gift, or benefit received.

from From Latin ingratus, 'unthankful, unpleasant' — built from the negating prefix in- ('not') on gratus, 'pleasing, thankful.' That same gratus is the root of 'grateful,' 'gratitude,' and 'gratis,' so ingratitude is quite literally the un-doing of grace: a thing given freely (gratis) and met with no pleasure (gratus) returned. It reached English through Old French ingratitude in the late Middle Ages.

shakespeare's worst
He called it harsher than winter's wind in King Lear.
darwin's note
Even monkeys protest when peers get the better grape.
latin root
From ingratus, meaning unpleasing and unthankful both.
survival quirk
Brains forget favors faster than they forget grudges.
for instance

brutus and caesar — caesar's trusted friend stabbed him on the ides of march, 44 bce, prompting 'et tu, brute?'

salieri and mozart — court composer salieri's jealous hatred of mozart, immortalized in amadeus, despite mozart's earlier patronage

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