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The art of making your idea feel like their idea all along.

means The act of cleverly handling people, situations, or objects to steer them toward a result you want — sometimes innocently skillful, often quietly underhanded.

from From Latin 'manipulus,' a handful — literally 'a hand-full,' from 'manus' (hand) plus a root tied to 'plere' (to fill). It first described physical handling, the way pharmacists and craftsmen worked things by hand; only later did it slide into the figurative sense of working people the way one works clay. The same 'manus' gives us 'manual,' 'manufacture,' and 'manage' — a whole family of words about getting things done with the hands, before this one learned to do it behind your back.

word origin
From Latin for handful, literally working by hand
foot in door
Tiny first request makes huge ones feel reasonable
sunk cost
People stay loyal to what already cost them
mirroring
Copying posture and speech builds instant fake rapport
scarcity trick
Limited supply makes brains want things harder
for instance

operation mockingbird — cia program that manipulated major us media outlets from 1950s-1970s

tuskegee syphilis study — us public health service withheld treatment from 399 black men for 40 years starting 1932

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