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the social tax you pay before anyone lets you say something real.
means light, low-stakes conversation used to establish rapport without committing to actual content.
from the phrase surfaces in english by the 1930s, though the practice is ancient — anthropologists trace it to grooming behavior in primates, where chatter about weather replaces picking bugs off each other.
linguistic termphatic communication — words that bond, not inform.
evolutionary cousingrooming rituals in apes serve the same bonding function.
cultural variancesome cultures skip it entirely, others require twenty minutes minimum.